The foundation of any relationship
is trust. If you cannot trust your partner, you cannot respect him;
and if you cannot respect him, you cannot be in love with him.
Similarly, in order to maintain a healthy relationship with your bea,
you ought to be sure about his interest, respect for you and most
importantly, his fidelity. Is he absolutely faithful? Or is he
cheating on you? Do not second guess or wonder – be absolutely sure.
Find out once and for all whether he is trustworthy or not. Know for
real whether he is having an affair with someone else other than you.
There are several ways to figure this out. Here are the ways to know if
he is cheating on you.
- He has changed his grooming habits
If
you notice a change in his grooming habits, get cautious.
He may be
combing his hair too perfectly, taking too much time in the shower,
paying extra attention to his appearance and probably wearing new
perfume all of a sudden. These are signs he may be seeing some other
woman.
- His sleeping pattern has altered
If
he is cheating on you, he will have to give time to the other girl as
well. So you will find a stark difference in his sleeping pattern. He
may be sleeping during the day or staying up till late at night,
texting his new affair.
- He is away for longer than usual
If
he is having an affair, he will not be around for longer than usual.
Since he will have to give time to the other woman as well, he will
have to come up with more and more excuses to stay away from home. He
will have more business trips and more plans of work related travel
than usual and will be away for longer hours barely having time to
meet up or hang out with you.
- He uses his cell phone too often
Note
if there are any changes in the usage of his cell phone. He will be
very careful in handling his cell phone now that he is cheating on
you. He will be frequently sending and receiving messages. He may also
be receiving more than usual calls which he would ensure to receive
outside your earshot. Also, try asking for his cell phone and note if
he becomes nervous or tries to change the subject so as to avoid
handing over his phone to you.
- He spends more time online
If
he is cheating on you, he is also more likely to spend more time
online than usual. Not because he would be working, he could be
spending more time chatting with his new love interest online than
over the phone. It is also probable that he has profiles on online
adult friendship websites where he may be seeking out new matches.
- He clears his browsing history
Since
he is cheating on you, he will be careful about many things so as not
to arouse your suspicion. Check his laptop or personal computer and
see the browsing history. If he is cheating on you, it is likely to be
surprisingly clean. In fact he may even delete all browsing history,
to be on the safe side, just in case.
- You have found tangible signs
Another
tell-tale sign that he is cheating on you would be little objects you
may find on his person or clothing. Long strands of hair, lipstick
marks, tiny female hair bands and clips – and anything else that could
have come from some other woman clearly show that he has been intimate
with someone else and is cheating on you.
